A GREAT
LIFE
A great life doesn't happen
by accident. A great life is the result of allocating your time, energy,
thoughts, and hard work towards what you want your life to be. Stop setting
yourself up for stress and failure, and start setting up your life to
support success and ease. A great life is the result of using the 24/7 you
get in a creative and thoughtful way, instead of just what comes next.
Customize these "secrets" to fit your own needs and style, and
start creating your own great life today.
1. S-Simplify
A great life is the result
of simplifying your life. People often misinterpret what simplify means.
It's not a way to remove work from your life. When you focus on simplifying
your life, you free up time and energy for the work that you enjoy and the
purpose for which you are. In order to create a great life, you will have to
make room for it in yours first.
2. E-Effort
A great life is the result
of your best effort. Creating a great life requires that you make some
adjustments. It may mean re-evaluating how you spend your time, or choosing
to spend your money in a different way. It may mean looking for ways to
spend your energy that coincide with your definition of a great life. Life
will reward your best effort.
3. C-Create Priorities
A great life is the result
of creating priorities. It's easy to spend your days just responding to the
next thing that gets your attention, instead of intentionally using the
time, energy, and money you have in a way that's important to you. Focus on
removing the obstacles that get in the way of you making sure you are
honoring your priorities.
4. R-Reserves
A great life is the result
of having reserves -- reserves of things, time, space, energy, money. Having
reserves means that you have a lot more than you need -- not 6 months living
expenses, but 5 years worth; not 15 minutes of free time, but 1 day.
Reserves are important because they reduce the fear of consequences, and
allow you to make decisions based on what you really want, instead of what
the fear decides.
5. E-Eliminate Distractions
A great life is the result
of eliminating distractions. Up to 75% of your mental energy can be tied up
in things that are draining and distracting you. Eliminating distractions
can be a difficult concept to many people because they haven't really
considered that there is another way to live. Find ways to free up your
mental energy from the nagging distractions for the things that are really
important to you.
6. T-Thoughts
A great life is the result
of controlling your thoughts so that you accept and allow for the
possibility that it can actually happen to you. Your belief in the outcome
will directly dictate how successful you are. Motivated people have specific
goals and look for ways to achieve them. Believing there is a solution to
the same old problems you encounter year after year is vitally important to
creating a life that you love. Whatever you think and believe, you create.
Listen to what you're telling yourself, and adjust that voice if you need
to.
7. S-Start
A great life is the result
of starting. There's the old saying that everyone's familiar with: "A
journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." In order to
even move from the couch to the refrigerator, you have to start. There's no
better time to start creating a better life than today. Don't wait for a
raise, or until the kids get older, or the weather is better. Today, right
now, is the right day to start to take a step in the direction of your
heart's desires. It's what you do TODAY that will make a difference in your
life tomorrow.
Author: Kathy Gates